Who’s Judging Whom?

Who’s Judging Whom?

A few days ago, one of my Facebook posts went viral—at least by my not-so-lofty standards of social media reach (88 shares is roughly 85 more than my previous record). When I first noticed my post was attracting an audience, it felt like I'd downed half a dozen shots of Southern Comfort. My insides felt warm, and I was kind of giddy. But it didn't take long before queasiness set in, and by the next day I felt the dull fog of a hangover.

TL;DR

TL;DR

It's been almost two months since I escaped a flaming ferris wheel, taking leave from the carnival where opinions circulate amidst truths, lies, and everything in between. I had long been a passive participant at the Facebook Fair, ducking in and out of its various houses. I found the fun house enjoyable and silly, while [...]

Perseverism

Perseverism

Finding my place between mediocrity and perfectionism In this society where ambition is celebrated and achievements are worn as badges, the quest for perfection seems like an honourable pursuit. Who hasn't told a prospective employer -- or anyone else they wish to impress -- that they are a "perfectionist"? There are countless studies and articles [...]